What to say

Have been in situations where I know not what to say or how to respond. Last night's conversation with H added to the list. Totally unprepared and unexpected.

To say words of encouragement and affirmation. To edify and not to question. To love and not cause pain. To build and not break.

Feedback
It feels like it's alway about doing.
About what I should do.
If I have problems, the issue lies in me.
About T
About C
HBoss is probably the only one who understands.
Maybe because he is a new chrisitan.
Doing because of what He has done or because of commandments?
Don't see God centredness but work centredness.

To "H"
Why draining?
What is tasked to you?
What's expected?
All doing?
What's last semester's theme.
What's this semester's theme.
Self-righteous?
Are you looking out for words?
Disappointed when you didn't?
Somethings are understood and left unsaid.
Keep friendship that's build.
Continue cell group in church.
Channel here is always open.


Remembered the list of "What more can be done?"

1. To motivate members to be initiative
2. To have a stronger bonding within Care Groups
3. Evangelism/ Campus outreach activities
4. Prayer at NTU CF level
5. CF’s image to the student body and administration
6. Making availability of pastoral care obvious
7. Have a worship team
8. A conducive environment to serve
9. Interaction with other Campus Ministries
10. Participation of FES events

Adding pointer 11: Saying the obvious and delibrately bring God into the picture.


A good introduction is needed for BS. Set the ground right for discussion. Need to work on this.